Let’s say you have gotten the chance to go on a date with a Latina. Still, you know the differences between your culture and hers are quite noticeable, so you want to make sure that she is going to have fun.
But how do you do that? Should you look out for hints on how to have a blast with her on a date? Is just knowing about Latin culture enough? What is the best way to approach the situation? Well, in this article, I’m going to talk about how you should make your plans and some general things you should consider while you do it.
Plan Your Date
No matter the situation you are in, or the person you are dealing with, planning your date can be a move that can help your day, and your date’s day as well. With that said, there are newcomers to the world of dating that have never actually gone on a date before, so they often stick to their plans too hard without allowing spontaneous events to happen and flow.
With that said, the way to plan a date depends entirely on the type of activity you like, and of course, what the other person likes. That brings the next important topic.
Think of Her as an Individual
Although it is advantageous to consider the person’s background when planning a date, you should be more aware of their actual individuality.
You might have met her from a dating app or website, and if you don’t know I’m talking about, you can always learn more. Of course, you might as well have met her through a friend or acquaintance, but the situation that brought you together doesn’t matter: you have to put some effort into it to be successful.
This usually translates into getting to know her beforehand. Although there are people who go on dates even before knowing each other well enough, you should try to get to know the person to plan a fun date with her. It’s not like you need to know everything about them. Just having some hint son what she likes and what she enjoys to do can give you a fair advantage.
The Magic of an Honest, Fluid Conversation
A lot of people make the mistake of going to places where having a conversation is difficult, and they often underestimate the magic of a really fluid conversation. Things like the theater or a music concert are some of the options you should avoid.
Thus, plans involving dinner or lunch at a quiet place where you can talk with the other party are actually really good, even more, if she likes the option you picked for the restaurant. That way, both parties will get to know each other without interruptions, and having a fluid conversation will be much easier, and as something I consider very important in first dates, that’s a winning milestone to fulfil.
Activities and Games Might Nail the Deal
Something to consider is that helps to have an activity or games to play while you talk with someone in case the conversation dies for a few seconds or it gets awkward. It works as a conversation topic while you get to know each other, and might also show how you and the other person deal with games and activities.
I often take my dates to a cafe with lots of board games, and I often recommend playing Jenga or Connect 4. That way, after eating something, we can have something to share while talking about ourselves.
They Love Dancing
Most Latinas have a thing for dancing, so if you are both planning for a night date, taking them out for a dance might be a really great start. You might want to be at least competent at it beforehand, though.
Still, I don’t recommend going to such places as a first, date, for the reasons I mentioned early. The loud noise will interrupt a good conversation, so it is better to do it when you guys know each other better.
They Are Often Very Homely
From what the Latin women I’ve got to know, they are often very homely, meaning that they love to take care of people. Perhaps their motherly instincts are stronger, or they just enjoy doing it, but a friend of mine enjoys sharing her recipes with us, and she’s often very happy to cook for her husband, and he enjoys it a lot.
Of course, this can be a rather dangerous date for a first date, but if you feel like the other side is comfortable with you, she might like the idea. So invite her for a cooking date where you both cook something you like and share with the other party!
The Latin Culture
Latin culture is often related to a lot of optimism and positiveness, even in bad times. If you are someone who’s cold by nature and not as expressive, you might want to reconsider the idea of dating a Latina.
It is something that fits people who like to have fun, and enjoy the idea of going out, taking the sun, dancing, playing loud music while cleaning and being very familiar.
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Making Them Fall for You
You should always let them have their space, without losing interest in them, since they are also easy to lose interest in men, considering how independent they are. You should try to be mysterious while being confident, but don’t do anything to compromise your own personality: make sure to be transparent and honest.
Never try to be someone who you aren’t. There’s nothing better than meeting with someone and knowing both sides are attracted to each other while knowing that you are being who you are.
Try to be respectful as well, since there’s a lot of people who believe that just because there’s a lot of physical contact in Latin culture, they are allowed to do the same. It’s ok to try to understand the culture, but don’t use it as an excuse to be rude to them.
