Updated 2025 – Originally published October 2016
There’s something magical about the moment you realize you’re cooking for yourself again—not just feeding hungry mouths, but actually nourishing your own soul.
This autumn, as I stirred this creamy pumpkin soup in my kitchen with only one child left to homeschool, I felt something shift. For the first time in twenty years, I had space to ask myself: What do I actually want to eat? Not what’s quick for the kids. Not what everyone will tolerate. But what brings me comfort on a grey October evening.
The answer? This velvety, coconut-kissed pumpkin soup, served in a crusty bread bowl with proper butter melting into every bite, a glass of wine within reach, and the rain pattering against the windows while I curl up on the sofa.
This is the soup of rediscovery. And I’m sharing it with you—along with the story of what it means to find yourself again in the quiet spaces motherhood leaves behind.

For years, my kitchen was a production line. Batch cooking for eight people. Kid-friendly everything. Meals that could withstand the chaos of homeschooling six children while trying to keep a blog alive.
But as my children have grown and my homeschooling load has lightened, I’ve been on a journey of rediscovering what brings me joy. What flavours speak to my soul. What rituals make me feel grounded in the changing seasons.
This quick pumpkin soup recipe represents that journey. It’s:
But more than that, it’s a permission slip. Permission to cook what you love. Permission to take 15 minutes for yourself. Permission to evolve beyond the “mum who feeds everyone” into the woman who also feeds her own spirit.
For the soup:
For garnish (choose your favourites):
For serving:
Optional Step – Pumpkin Bowl Preparation (30 minutes):
If you want to serve your soup in adorable pumpkin shells (perfect for autumn dinner parties or when you want to feel extra cozy):
Main Recipe (15 minutes):
Coconut milk is the secret weapon here. Unlike cream-based pumpkin soups, coconut milk adds:
Fresh thyme brings an earthy, slightly minty note that grounds the sweetness of the pumpkin. It’s the herb of autumn—woody, warm, and deeply comforting.
Sweet peppers and spring onions add layers of flavour and slight texture, preventing the soup from being one-dimensional. You get little pockets of savoury sweetness in every spoonful.
I’ve always been drawn to seasonal eating—not just because it’s trendy, but because there’s something deeply grounding about eating what the earth is offering right now.
Pumpkin soup in autumn feels like wrapping yourself in a warm blanket. It’s comfort food that honors the harvest season, the shortening days, and our natural instinct to seek warmth and nourishment as the year winds down.
This is intentional eating—choosing foods that connect you to the rhythms of nature and the turning of the wheel of the year.
For a heartier meal:
For extra depth:
For different dietary needs:
This easy pumpkin soup pairs beautifully with:
Here’s what I’ve learned about cooking for yourself after years of cooking for everyone else: it’s an act of self-love.
When I make this soup now, I don’t rush. I light a candle. I put on music I love. I pour myself that glass of wine while I’m cooking, not just when I’m done. I taste as I go and adjust the seasonings to exactly what I want.
This is what I call kitchen witchery—the practice of bringing intention and presence to everyday cooking. It’s not about elaborate spells or complicated rituals. It’s about recognizing that nourishing yourself is a sacred act.
As I stir the soup, I think about:
Try it. Make this soup with intention. Notice how it feels different when you’re not just going through the motions, but actually present with the process.
This quick pumpkin soup is perfect for batch cooking:
Can I use fresh pumpkin instead of canned? Absolutely! Roast 2 cups of pumpkin flesh until tender, then puree. Canned is just faster and available year-round.
What if I don’t have coconut milk? You can substitute heavy cream or whole milk, but you’ll lose the subtle sweetness and dairy-free benefit. Coconut milk is truly special here.
Can I make this in a slow cooker? Yes! Add all ingredients to your slow cooker and cook on low for 2-3 hours. It’s less “quick” but perfect for hands-off cooking.
How do I make it thicker? Reduce the amount of stock slightly, or add a peeled, diced potato to the sauté step—it will break down and thicken the soup naturally.
Is this soup kid-friendly? Very! The coconut milk makes it creamy and slightly sweet, which most children love. Let them choose their own toppings for extra fun.
If you’re reading this and you’re in a season of transition—whether your children are growing up, you’re rediscovering who you are beyond motherhood, or you’re simply craving more intention in your daily life—I see you.
This soup is for you.
It’s for the busy mum who deserves 15 minutes of comfort. It’s for the woman rediscovering her own tastes and preferences. It’s for anyone who wants to bring more seasonal awareness and intention into their kitchen.
Cooking doesn’t have to be complicated to be meaningful. Sometimes the simplest recipes—the ones that come together in minutes—are the ones that feed us most deeply.
I’d love to know: What are you rediscovering about yourself this autumn? What flavours, rituals, or practices are calling to you as the season changes?
Drop a comment below and let’s connect. After twenty years of blogging, I’ve learned that the best part isn’t just sharing recipes—it’s the community we build around them.
And if you make this quick pumpkin soup recipe, please share it! Tag me on Instagram @countryheartdeb so I can see your beautiful bowls of autumn comfort.
Here’s to nourishing ourselves, honoring the seasons, and finding magic in the everyday.
With love and intention, Debbie
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Ohh! I do like the sound of this…Soup is so good a this time of the year and a pumpkin one is just perfect x
Love soup at this time of year. My nan makes a delicious pumpkin soup. Mmm could do with a bowl now. Thanks for sharing x
This looks so good – pumpkin is actually the only soup I like!
Oooh this soup sounds fab! You cant beat a bowl of warm soup on a cold day x
I’m not keen on pumpkin soup my hubby took some to work the other day I’ll have to show him this recipe.
Oh wow that looks awesome!! Can you believe I have never tried pumpkin soup! I think I ought to fix that this year!
Ooh this sounds fab. I prefer recipes that are quick and easy to make as I’m more likely to try them out xxx
I’m really not a fan of pumpkin soup but the way you’ve served it in the pumpkin looks lovely!
ooo this looks so good! i haven’t tried pumpkin before but am tempted
Yummy, what a delicious soup! I will be trying it as I love soups at this time of the year! 🙂
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This looks absolutely delicious! I love pumpkin soup and as the nights are getting darker, it is great to come home to! I will be trying this one out x
I have not had pumpkin soup in forever, thanks for this recipe, I do want to give it a try soon.